I know people complain frequently that there isn't realistic stories/encounters posted on here enough. So I thought I would share my hotwifing fail that happened recently.

For those following along this was with guy #3 who I see pretty regularly.

We met up several nights ago and my husband was very excited. He had helped me pick out what to wear and had some specific requests of some video/pictures he would like me to get while I was there.

I'll post a picture of the lingerie on my page. He wanted me to wear just that but it was cold and rainy and we have neighbors so I put clothes over it to get to his house.

But, I get there. He pulls of my sweatshirt and pants revealing my lacy body suit and he is definitely loving it. We make out for a minute and he leads me into the bedroom. I had already let him know that my husband wanted me to record some specific things.

As always he makes sure he gets me off first before we do anything else. Which is always appreciated!

My husband had wanted video of me blowing him so I opened my camera and handed it to him to record while I went down on him. Obviously I was really trying to do my best work here to show off for my husband to watch later. And the guy was loving it.

The other specific thing my husband wanted was a cumshot at the end. But maybe telling the guy this put too much pressure on him.

We weren't trying to record anything during the actual sex but he was having difficulty staying hard. Which is understandable. It happens! We took a break and chatted for a few minutes while I tried to get him back hard with my hand. And once he was ready to go we tried again. This happened a couple times and then he finally said he didn't think it was going to happen tonight.

I was disappointed, mostly for my husband! But like I said that happens and it's not his fault. Maybe telling him I wanted him to record it gave him some nerves.

I was happy that I at least had the video of the blow job to share. As soon as I got in my car I was going to send a text with the video to my husband so he would get it before I got home. And GUESS WHAT. Some how we didn't record anything at all. Not a single picture or second of video.

Obviously super disappointing all around! And my husband was bummed. Fortunately I was able to cheer him up and we just had a good laugh about the whole thing and discussed how I was double check to make sure I actually got the video in the future lol.

I think the most important thing I've learned so far on this journey with my husband is that fantasy isn't reality and things won't always go as you planned! It's important to always be able to have sense of humor about it all.

We will be meeting again tomorrow so hopefully this time we won't have any more snaffus. And I will get some really great stuff for my husband. Suggestions on what I can get for him are always welcome as well!