It’s now been a few weeks since my very sexy wife had sex with another dude. It took a very long time for this to happen, with tons of communication and zero expectations on my part. Since it happened, we’ve talked a lot, had lots of hot sex, started this reddit and shared some photos of her, and done a lot of psychoanalysis!

She still doesn’t understand why I would want to watch her being intimate with another man, she has zero interest in watching me with another woman. Luckily I have no interest in that either. Her assumption of my desire for this was an excuse for me to have sex with others as well. Not the case at all. I joined Reddit to find out more about the lifestyle and why I do feel this way. The best thing I have found so far is compersion. Compersion is finding joy and excitement in seeing the one you love feeling pleasure. That is definitely what I am feeling. I just love the thought of my wife being pleasured.

Our next goal is for me to be there and be part of it. I want to watch and I want to also be a part of it. My dream is to have my wife sucking my cock as another man fucks her. I want to watch her sexy ass bounce as she’s pushed in to me and moans on my cock. This is the fantasy I’ve told her many times, and that we’ve role played for years. The exciting part is that it is now a potential reality. She isn’t so sure, but after enjoying her recent hookup, and more importantly seeing how much it turned me on, she is entertaining the possibility.

I’ve found out I am more of the Stag/Vixen definition. The goal isn’t to send my wife off alone, and definitely not the humiliation thing. I don’t have jealousy, but rather pride that I have such a hot wife, and just want to watch her ecstasy. I also like hearing that others are in to her and turned on so much by her.

She has found out that she is a little more in to the idea than she thought. She didn’t expect it to ever happen, but the circumstance was right. She was very surprised at my reaction to it. She did feel some guilt but is getting over that. She is shocked how turned on it makes her when seeing how many men have been in to her photos.

Moving forward, I am going to be patient. We won’t be doing anything local, we live in a small town, so it will only be away, so limited opportunities. Combined with the fact that she can’t imagine doing this with someone she doesn’t have some type of connection with, so it will take some time getting to know the other man as well. I don’t think there will be a shortage of interested men, she’s hot, but the connection plus opportunity will leave the likelihood few and far between.

For those wondering, we have discussed her coworker she fucked, and if this could happen when he traveled to our area. She is open to the idea, but she hasn’t discussed it with him yet. That may be the most likely option, but no idea when that might happen.

So for now, I do my best to be patient, but it’s dominating my thoughts. Hoping some day soon I’ll be able to post something in r/spitroasted!! Its good to have goals