Married guy here. We mostly swing but we’ve had a few MFMs over the last few months and my just played solo last night for the first time in years. The guy last night was top notch. He booked the room at a nice hotel, was on time, asked her what drink to have ready for her when she arrived, and had massage oil ready to go to start with a sensual massage. In the days leading up to their date, he engaged her in flirty anticipation talk but nothing over the top. All conversation was had via our four way group chat (including his wife). During play from her account he was very attentive to her and very focused on making sure her enjoyment was his top priority.
It got me thinking about some of the things thirds have done that left a great impression. For us, the massage oil was unexpected and had my wife well prepared for a great play session. What has left an impression for you or what have you done as a third that you think is a signature thing?