I've been badgering my wife for years that I'd love to share her. Really not her thing and it irritates her. Then 2 months ago she was spending the night in a holiday cottage with her best friend. She left our house in the morning in a huff and I didn't hear from her until she got home the next day. She said she had to tell me something. "I've been really bad. A man's been sending me dirty messages" I said sure you don't know any men and said she's joking. She told me she had a lot of wine and a joint and her friend told her about a man that fancies her. He'd friend requested my wife previously on Facebook but she thought must have been a mistake. My wife and him then swapped messages all night. She says if he'd have been there she'd have done it.