My wife has a date scheduled for this evening. It will be her second hotwife date ever. I plan to blog here over the next 24 hours or so to document my experience as her husband. I may break this into several posts but will do my best to link to subsequent updates. For this first post, let me provide a little background...

We are a mid-40's couple. Without sounding too Penthouse forum-ish, my wife is a sexy redhead. About 5'6", size 6, and augmented 34DDs. She doesn't realize how hot she is.

We jumped into the LS about 4 years ago. We started with couples only and after our first successful soft swap with that couple, jumped into a full swap with the same couple, but via separate solo dates on subsequent evenings. That meant her alone with him on night one and me alone with her on night two.

I posted a similar account to this on that first night via a throwaway Reddit account. Posting that was therapeutic in many ways. Since that account has subsequently been deleted, luckily we captured that in blog post. Unfortunately we lost all the comments and my responses but you can get the idea and I think the compare/contrast to this evening should be interesting. You can read that account here. https://redheadbossbitch.wordpress.com/2021/08/08/first-hotwife-experience-tonight/

Yes my wife and I started to work on an online persona for her, RedheadBossBitch. We captured some memories via blog posts but found keeping up with that to too much time and we just wanted to focus on enjoying the LS. We may go back to it at some point.

Getting to tonight has been a journey. After that first full swap, we enjoyed a number of other couple swaps. We had a great week at Naughty in N'Awlins in 2021 (which you can also read about in that same blog). We looked for single guys for her but just got too frustrated and gave up for awhile. Throughout that early part of our journey, I struggled with performance issues like many men in the LS. Life got busy and we ended up taking a break from the LS for about two years in the 2022 to early 2024 timeframe. We jumped back in early this year. We found a couple that introduced me to Trimix. Absolute game changer for performance issues. We found a great single guy that we've met for MFMs. We went to Naughty again this year and had an absolutely insane experience with couple swaps, multiple orgies, tried DVP, put on a BDSM dungeon scene, and ended up making some great friendships coming out of it. We recently had some separate room, same house play with a couple that gave me a little taste of what I expect I'll feel tonight.

We were contacted awhile back by one of those couples from Naughty 2024. The husband was going to be in our area traveling for work about 3 hours drive away and wanted to know if we wanted to get together for some MFM fun. We scheduled it for this evening in our city. Since then we ended up with some scheduling challenges with our kids and I suggested that she just play with him solo. Oddly, he agreed very quickly. /s

Here is the plan for this evening. She is meeting him for drinks at his hotel about 4pm. They plan to then head up to play. That is about the only thing set in stone. They may want me to meet them later in the evening for dinner/drinks. Maybe they'll play again after that, not sure. He has agreed to video tape the entire play session for his wife and for me to enjoy. No we will not share the video, sorry.

It's about 11:30am now. While I'm going to try to keep myself busy with work and carting the kids around today, I'll plan to come back here periodically to answer questions and update the group on what's going on.

We may also do more of a he said, she said type of blog entry if I can get my wife to do it. I think getting her perspective makes it all the more interesting.

He just sent a text to us letting us know he was starting his drive our direction. I'm nowhere near as anxious as I was in that very first HW experience 3.5 years ago, but I can definitely feel some of those same butterflies. What's different this time is we are much more experienced. I'll also get to see video this time which I'm crazy excited about.

So what if any questions do you have?