So far I have yet to fully disclose my hidden kink to my lovely fiancé.. I haven’t completely told her about my desire to share her..just yet. However, she does understand that I love to prioritize her and purposely put her pleasure above my own. I’m making a conscious effort proving to her that I truly feel immense pleasure whenever she does. I spoke on my relationship and my reluctance to share my kinks in previous posts of mine.. I feel like a lot of progress has been made since then. I’m writing about my current situation because I’m curious to know if there’s really some potential here.. Also, I’m not really sure how to proceed... How do I encourage her to try this new venture in the bedroom with me without scaring her off? I understand patience is key and I want to move at whatever pace she’s comfortable with. I would never force anything upon her, so if this idea of sharing her stays nothing more than just fantasy, so be it…

In previous posts I mentioned how my fiancé is starting to read erotic novels.. She’s developed quite the appetite for dark romance, specifically reverse harem books and “why choose” types.. She recently recounted to me how her latest read turned her on so much she started masturbating to it… this caught me by surprise because she rarely masturbates! She usually has me finger her or go down on her to get her off.. Lately our sex life has been so scorching hot and lustful. Our intimacy has always been fueled with passion but she’s opening herself up to things she wouldn’t even consider doing in the past…

I got her a dildo and initially she was kind of hesitant to use it.. Now, after a bit of encouragement, she likes to put on a show for me. I’ll stroke myself and watch how she fucks herself to orgasm and I absolutely love it. In all honesty, eating pussy is hands down one of my favorite things to do as a couple, watching her squirm and climax really gets me going…Especially because she’s the main focus and center of attention. I recently had the idea of going down on her and simultaneously penetrating her with the dildo… She went NUTS for that. It’s slowly becoming one of our favorite things to do for foreplay.

My fiancé is relatively shy and quite reserved.. I’m trying to create this judgement free safe space so she feels comfortable exploring this slutty side of herself.. somehow I only catch glimpses of it before she snaps out of it and her self discipline takes over… I think my fiancé has her guard up and might be holding herself back for my sake.. Early in our relationship I was very jealous and controlling… I realized how toxic I was and decided I didn’t want to be “that guy” anymore.. My fiancés hesitation makes me feel guilty. I’m the one who struck this fear in her.. I want to provide her with a judgment free safe space but I’m the one who judged her the most in the past :( I feel like I burned my own bridge.. Nowadays I encourage her to let loose and enjoy the moment especially when she’s out with her girlfriends. They bring out the worst in her in the best way possible.. when she’s out with friends, I legit tell my fiancé to seduce men into buying her drinks. Even encouraging her to dress more provocative. I straight up told her I want her to dress like a slut when she goes out. She was shocked but really receptive.. I think she might be internally conflicted and confused on how to navigate because of my past insecurities…

Honestly I don’t know if this kink will ever see the light of day, but I have hope.. My fiancé says and does things that make me think she might actually have some interest in the lifestyle.. I tried incorporating more dirty talk into our foreplay and she started going along with it.. I said something along the lines of:

“I would do anything you wanted me to”

to which she replied with:

“You’re going to do whatever the fuck I tell you to”

This sent me over the edge and l can’t stop thinking about it..

Another interesting thing to note is my fiancé suggested we take a trip out of town and maybe visit an unfamiliar city. She wants to go bar hopping and maybe go clubbing.. here’s the catch, she wants us to act like complete strangers and “pick each other up” .. this sounds like an ideal hotwife scenario but I’m not sure how to go about it..

It’s small things like this and her sudden outbursts of slutty tendencies that make me wonder if the seed is already planted…

Am I delusional or do her reactions sound promising? Is this kink worth pursuing with her?

If any hot wives would like to share any information with me regarding what it took from being hesitant/reluctant to fully on board I would deeply appreciate it. I really want to know what helped you start warming up to the idea. Thank you for your time, I appreciate everyone who took the time to read my post :)