Need some advice here. Not sure where to proceed. Im (37m) married to a smokeshow of a wife (30f) and we’ve been together for 6 years. I discovered this kink before we were together however never brought it up. My wife had a pretty run of the mill sex life in her 20s and it had remained that way since being with me. On occasion I will use a dildo on her that she goes wild on, I’m talking toe curling orgasms. However after she will say that sometimes the dildo is a bit much.

I recently confessed to her that I had a dream where I picked her up after a massage and she revealed that the massage remained professional, but the more that he rubbed on her ass and close to her panties she got so turned on that her panties were soaked and she didn’t want it to end. I suggested role playing the dream sometime. Wife said that on first thought she doesn’t think she’d be into it but she could be wrong and is willing to give it a shot.

I’m planning on role playing it in a few weeks once life slows down a little but is there any other suggestions to help further things along and find out if she’s into this?