Me (F35 straight) and my husband (M40 bi) are interested in trying some new things. We have been talking and playing around with the idea for a while, using toys and dirty talk in the bedroom. He loves the idea of "positive" hotwifing where we would both be in the room and he would be encouraging the entire time (that's the only way I feel comfortable with it) also him being involved during play, and I have been very interested in the DVP which he is also very game for. A little back story, we have been together 5 years and have a son. His last relationship was very open to being almost poly (we are 100% monogamous so far) so he has more experience in this type of dynamic than I do. He wasn't the one to start the conversation of potential 3rd I was. He is being very supportive and non pushy letting me ask 1000 questions and getting all my insecurities out. He assures me that it would be mainly focused on me the whole time. He keeps saying the point is for me to be having fun and get a "treat" saying things along the lines of it would be fun to watch and encourage me to have fun and then he can join in. It would 100% be mfm and no other women to be brought in. Just plain not my cup of tea. I guess I'm looking for support on how to get over the idea that I'm doing something wrong or feeling guilty when he's extremely encouraging and open to trying and experiencing this together. Any advice or tips?