If you’re meeting a guy that you know for your first hotwife experience and you get a hotel room. Curious if you went home middle of the night shortly after having sex, even if it’s multiple times, or did you just come home sometime the next morning after waking up?

My wife is supposed to meet an old guy friend of hers in a few weeks. They plan to go out for drinks and get a hotel room after. When originally talked about sharing her we were both excited by the idea of me being there to watch, possibly have some involvement, but mostly to be able to have sex with her, reclaim, right afterwards. Once she and her friend started talking/planning to actually meet up she told me she felt like it would be better if she met him solo. Her friend has never been in this role before so it might be weird for him if I’m there and that it might make her feel pressured or bad if she’s not paying enough attention to me. Which I understood but still slightly disappointed for reasons I could explain but it’s a whole other story.

I also don’t think he understands the dynamic and doesn’t realize that she is just using him for his big dick. She said that’s the only reason why she really ever wanted to have sex with him

Any recommendations or something you wish you had done differently first time? Like setting up your phone to record video or audio. Did or would you prefer to stay the whole night and come home the next morning or go home right after to share the details and have sex? I told my wife that’s what I would want ideally but doesn’t want me to be upset if she ends up passing out afterwards.