Hey all. Husband here, both my wife and I have talked about getting into the lifestyle for probably 2 or more years now. At first, I wanted to be there and watch everything in person. After talking with my wife about it, I think it would be hot or maybe even easier to just be nearby and her play solo. For example, me at a hotel bar and them in one of the rooms.

Has anyone tried this as a first time scenario? For reference, this third she would be meeting is trustworthy and doesn’t pose a threat. We have a secure relationship and an explosive sex life to begin with.

Also, has anyone started by just having their wife go and kiss someone solo, and maybe feel them up?

Any thoughts or advice is greatly appreciated. Open to questions as well. Thank you!