We hit a rough patch in our marriage, largely do the outside factors, but compounded by us. There was no desire to end the relationship, but as I had always been interested in her being a hot wife and she wanted to explore her sexuality it really seemed like it would be, at the very least, a way to blow off some steam and have some fun.

It worked as planned and we have both had a lot of fun. The surprise for both of us was that even though a good chunk of the encounter she was having were with men who are much more fortunate in their endowment and are stereotypically much better looking, not a single one of them was more enjoyable than when we have sex.

That was for a variety of reasons, ranging from actually for sexual performance to everything else about the encounter being sub par. Some didn't care about her pleasure, some couldn't perform and some were just meh.

This is showing me that knowing your partner and what they like is an advantage that's hard to beat and that it's not an entirely about the act of sex itself, you can be okay in bed, but deliver in so many other ways that compensate for not having the largest number or rippling muscle for example.