So my wife and I have been in the "lifestyle" for a while now. Like, we started when we were in out mid 20's, and are in out early 50's now.

The first time we brought another person into our bedroom, I was actually hoping to get another COUPLE, so I could get some strange. LoL typical guy I guess. My wife was wise to it though, because I had for years tried to get her to agree to a FMF 3-sum. Then one day she said "ok, fine...I'll do a 3-sum with you...and another GUY!" I was surprised, but I asked if she was serious. She said if it was the right guy, maybe.

So I asked her who she thought was kinda hot. She said "idk, maybe S?". So then during pillow talk, I would tell stories of how S would treat her in bed, all while fingering her. Then about a year later, I asked her again, and she said yes, she found him hot, but would ONLY do it if she had some alcohol in her. Yep...you guessed it, I went to the liquor store and got her a bottle of tequila and some mixer. I then invited my friend over. He and I didn't really drink much, and he had no idea. Then, when I felt the time was right, I asked if anyone was hungry? It was about 2am, and the only place open was taco bell. Wife said yes, so S and I hopped in the car to drive 2 miles to taco bell. After placing our order and paying, I turned to him and asked "so, you wanna fuck my wife?" His face went ash white. He was legit scared. He apologized, and said he didn't realize he had been flirting. I interrupted him and said "nooo...it's cool man. I'm ok with it if you do, cuz SHE wants you to.". His color returned, and his smile was as big as the moon. He agreed, and we went back and had the best sexual experience I had ever had up to that point. He wasn't any bigger than me. Just more aggressive than me and fucked harder and different. We played with him, exclusively, almost every weekend for about 2 yrs.

Then we moved on to playing with couples. We had a couple duds, where the guy couldn't perform, but I was able to, and I ended up fucking both his wife AND mine. My wife always left unsatisfied. Then we went out with one couple where the guy was a taller, more muscular guy than me. He had a shorter cock, but it was about twice as thick as mine. His wife claimed she liked my length. My wife LOVED his girth. We played with them for about 3 yrs, until they started sleeping with other couples, as well as singles, then they started playing dangerously going w/o condoms with random ppl, and other stuff. They eventually got divorced. Really sad actually.

Then we moved to Florida. We went to swinger's clubs, but didn't hook up with anyone. Then we found a couple we vibed with. He was shorter and had a smaller cock than mine, but his wife was smoking hot. And my wife liked playing with her, so we stuck with them for about 2 yrs. Then her husband got jealous, and we broke up with them.

Then my wife decided that she didn't like the drama of couples. So we went back to single guys.

We slept with a couple duds, then came one guy we will call him D. D was almost as tall as me, more muscular, mocha skin, and VERY respectful. The first time with him, opened up her sexual wild side. She was willing to break long time rules to get with him. No condoms? No problem with her if it was him. No kissing rule we had for years? Gone the first night. Alone dates? After the first time with him, she BEGGED to be able to go alone with him. I was in 7th heaven! Then, after 2 yrs or so, he started dating a single girl, and fell in love, and she wasn't ok with him seeing my wife.

We haven't been with anyone since...it's been almost 10-11 yrs now. She still speaks fondly of him, but has not shown a desire to go out and play again. In fact, she always makes excuses NOT to.

But more recently, (about a month ago) I started a texting game with her that I call "3-sentence story". I start the story off with 3 sentences, then she gets 3, then me, and so on. Usually they just go totally vanilla with just me and her making love in the end. About a week ago though, she brought a 3rd into the story! And it turned out SUPER hot! When I got home, she asked me if I had thought about possibly looking for a guy when we go on our next business trip together. 😀 We have been adding in some dildo play from time to time also. I will wear a dildo (much larger than me) in the zipper of my pants, and fuck her with it. She gets off pretty easily that way, versus when we have sex regularly, she always has to use a vibrator to orgasm.

So...there you have it.