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I know this may come off judgy and might get some shit for this but I feel 90% people that say they are a bull but have nothing that meets requirements of being a ābullā. My husband is a stag to me is the ideal version of a āBULLā. He is extremely handsome, very fit, confident and well endowed. He just likes to share me. He like to say āshare his prize with others!ā š So maybe to me my standard for some else is high but I always thought a bull has some type of feature that would make him a bull.. such as well endowed, fit, handsome, alpha-like or all the above. Or does a BULL now just mean anyone you see who is not your husband?
I donāt think very many guys can really pull it off, at least in our experience. Dudes talk a big game on line and then show up and act timid. I think they expect the husbands to be some scrawny dork with a micro penis.
We run a local r4r board for our city, and many of the guys postingāespecially those around 19 years old and new to the sceneāuse the term as a buzzword without understanding its true meaning. Over the past decade, the word has lost its significance and is now seen as a special password to gain favor with couples. I've removed posts from guys saying things like, '20m Virgin here looking to be a bull,' without understanding the term at all.
Generally, anyone who messages us using that word gets ignored immediately (unless their profile shows they actually understand its meaning). Honestly, it's become a turn-off, and we've made it a point to avoid using the term in our own posts.
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Our posts always say no Virgins. I don't want to spend half the night teaching some guy who will cum before he gets his pants off. But the mentality of dudes is you miss the shots you don't take I guess, but those taking the shots just get blocked and then locked out of seeing our content so it's a lose/lose for them. Frustrating how little reading comprehension is in this scene. Or it's dudes who slide into DMs trying to be some like alpha Dom or something? Idk. Writing whole paragraphs about how the male partner is inferior and a cuck. We identify as stag hotwife dynamic with no major humiliation aspects involved but it's dudes who think with their cock, don't read the posts and consume too much porn who always try to message. It's gotten exhausting tbh and has been hard to find a reliable third.
The only way I can describe it really is that the scene feels......gentrified?idk it's the closest I can come to describing it