My girlfriend and I are slowly inching our way towards hotwifing, but it just occurred to me that one particular trait of her might make things a bit awkward: she can only come once, and then, for the most part, playtime's over for her.
I mean, don't get me wrong, she's not selfish at all! She'll gladly finish me off with a smile after she's had her orgasm, but it's more of a courtesy - all the sexual energy leaves her body and mind the moment she climaxes.
To make matters worse, she's also kinda impatient in bed. She hates it when I tease her, and she practically races towards an orgasm.
As such, most times we have sex, both of us are usually done by the 15-20 minute mark.
We actually don't mind, as both of us get everything they want for during these 15-20 minutes. But I just wondered if this wouldn't make things a bit awkward for a potential third partner. I would assume that most guys would expect an entire night of debauchery, not just a passionate quickie?
Anyone here have any experience with "one and done" kind of women and hotwifing?
i will say, it might be difficult simply because of the time and effort needed to find a guy — 15 mins would be a waste of time in my opinion, after spending weeks talking to different guys until finding someone compatible and available who doesn’t flake. just something to keep in mind
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for sure. i can’t really relate bc im multi orgasmic and also love going multiple rounds with breaks in between - my dates have never been less than 4 hours - but i just don’t think id want to put in the effort for such a brief time ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜