She met him in a paint store, retired military and a widower. He said his wife had been gone a couple of years and he was redecorating his home. She is a designer. He asked if she would come look over his place and give suggestions. She met him there and they walked through the house, with her making suggestions. Later, they were sitting on the couch, looking a catalogs, and he sorta said, “what this needs is a woman’s touch “. Then he replied, “I do too”. She looked at him and said, “maybe both are possible”, and put her hand on his leg. He asked if he could kiss her and she said she’d like that. That’s how it all began. Soon it was full on, and he hadn’t been with a women in over a year. I’ll continue soon.