Shared couples account. Use to be more active awhile back now mainly just lurkers more than anything. We’ve been into the lifestyle for a few years now. We’ve had a fair share of adventures and enjoy them most of the time.

One area that we struggle on is taking some time off the lifestyles and just having sexy fun stuff with just us as a couple. We try different things and are also successful in that. At times we just feel that we become too dependent/reliant on our lifestyle experience.

We go on dates and still actively “date” each other. We have family time. We do the typical couple stuff just seems a bit mundane. Then again maybe that’s why we’re into the lifestyle? Anyways, any other couples active in the lifestyle go through this? Thoughts? Recommendations into what can be done to in sorts disconnect from the lifestyle?