Hi all.

It finally happened. My wife finally admitted she's into the idea of being with other men. I confessed my hotwife fantasy originally like 4 years ago and it went poorly. I dropped it and we never talked about it again. Since then we've had 2 kids and sex wasn't her focus.

She really lost her sex drive since kids and she wanted it back. She read a book called "Come as you are" which opened her eyes to all things sex. Why she was so conservative and how she could move past some of her reservations/worries and identify turn ons and turn offs.

So we've been able to have really open conversations about fantasies and whatnot. So I brought up my hotwife fantasy again. I went into detail about my thoughts around it and it went well. Since then she's asked more questions around it and our sex life has exploded.

Last night we had some wine after kids went to bed and she brought it up. Said she'd definitely be into the idea. But obviously alot of things would have to make it an ideal person/situation to do it.

Im beyond excited about her openess to it. I don't think it'll happen any time in the immediate future and I won't be pressing. She wants to get her body back before she'd ever do anything. She needs that extra confidence.

But our sex has gotten so much better. Just the talk we have during sex about her being so bad makes it so hot.

Couple things we agree on within this lifestyle. 1. I'm in this with her. No humiliation. No sex deprivation. No clean up but sloppy seconds is hot. Our sex life remains priority. 2. We hate the term "bull" and guys with ONLY big dicks to offer. Gotta have more to offer. 3. Mfm and me watching is top. But ok with her going solo as long as I get all the details.

Still so much more to figure out but so happy with progress.