We have been talking about the lifestyle for a couple of years starting with me (35m) opening up to her about my fantasies. While she (35f) has found it extremely hot, her conservative/vanilla side along with our mutual family goals have prevented any real action (barring one adventure over a year ago).

Fast forward to this week, she’s on a last min work trip and out of the blue asked if I’d be ok if she “explored our fantasy”. I obviously said yes and we are both quite excited but really unsure what to expect.

She is planning to go to her hotel bar by herself tonight and flirt with anyone who may approach her - she plans to dress up a little and get a drink or two, but she definitely doesn’t want to initiate or move too fast which I totally get and appreciate.

There is a 5% chance anything may happen but I’m so excited for us (and nervous). Anyway, can’t share this with anyone in real life so just wanted to say all of this here. Will post an update if there is interest and obviously welcome any advice or watch-outs.