My wife and I have slowly been opening up more and more with our sexuality together. She has become more provocative and our sex life has sky rocketed.

Well at work the other day she had a customer come in and was apparently very forward. He was asking her out and saying he didn’t care that she had a husband or kids as she tried to deflect him.

This of course made me bow up with protection for my wife as I felt it was extremely disrespectful. But since I’ve had conflicting thoughts. If this has happened while we were out, I would have encouraged her to flirt. Does this make me a hypocrite? How have others felt or dealt with similar situations?

For clarification - she did not want his advances nor appreciation them and likes that I become protective off her.