Does Size Matter?

I’m sure so many women have been asked this a ton, because I sure in the hell have.

There is a lot of discussion around if size matters and that’s something totally based on the individual. Different women want different things and when it comes to sex and pleasure you cannot treat women as a monolith. We have different needs and wants and our sexual experiences should be catered to those wants and needs.

Yes, you have your size queens. The bigger, the better. They have the desire to feel full, to feel something massive inside of them. That’s their prerogative. Size matters to them. Nothing is wrong with that but again, different woman, different needs and desires.

Now for me…. When it comes to sex, I believe that sex is so much more than dick sizes and penetration. I’m a sensualist. I’m a foreplay whore. Fuck with my mind, my senses, and body before entering me. I want a man that knows his way around a woman’s body and who can rock my world before he even enters me.

I love the art of seduction. That’s where it starts for me. What you say. How you say it. Tell me those dirty filthy things. Whisper them in my ear. Give me eye contact. Direct and unwavering. Tell me how good I look and how you enjoy the smell of me.

Let those small friendly touches become lingering. Let them go a bit higher, a bit slower. Close the distance.

Are those fingers magical? I’m not talking about being able to finger pop pussy. Are you good at massages? Can you slowly rub and caress my body into a relaxed state? Do you know erogenous zones? Are you aware of those area to touch, lick, grab, bite, suck, rub…etc Those areas that get the juices flowing and the body hot.

How good are you with your tongue? Are you an oral expert? Can you lick and suck me until I give you a mouth full of my cream?

I’m in love with being turned on. I love being edged. I love multifaceted pleasure. I respect man who is skillful. Who knows how to please a woman outside of using his dick.

I’m an attention whore. I enjoy being a Vixen, because I’m the center of the experience. I’m not here to be a hole. I’m not looking to be fucked out of my mind. I want to all eyes on me. I want all hands on deck. Don’t just show up with dick. I want you to bring your best.

Foreplay is not only the appetizer, it’s the meat and potatoes for me as well.

Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy penetration. I love being fucked. I love dick inside me. You can be hung and fuck like an amateur. Show up with a huge dick and nothing else. You can be average and fuck like a virgin and jack rabbit the pussy.

It seems redundant but it’s seriously the motion of the ocean. How’s that stroke game.? You know how to hit them spots? You know how to position a woman in order to hit it right? You rolling them hips? How’s your stamina? Are you creative? Doggystyle and missionary is all you got? Booooooo tomatoes 🍅

Once you’re inside pussy, what you got?

I feel as though men put a lot of pressure on the size of their dicks. Sex is so much more than that.

Instead of focusing so much on how your cock measures up, here’s other things you should focus on:

Appearance, hygiene, grooming Personality, being personable, being a great conversationalist Learning erogenous zones and how to play with those areas Improving oral sex skills. Learn the art of seduction. Eye contact, sexy talk, sensual touch Take care of your health. Improve stamina Research sex positions that specifically cater to your dick size. Does size matter?…..

Yes if all you’re bringing to the table is dick