We have never gone about the lifestyle in this manner before. I’ve always found the guy, got to know him, then invite him to join us. She’s never played without me at least being present. But we tried a different angle this time…

She met him on Reddit, they talked for a few days, and set up a date. I dropped her off with him and they went for dinner and a drink. Shortly after I received a selfie of them together and a message saying I could head home. ( I stayed close for a bit incase it didn’t go well) about an hour later she sent me his address and said they were headed there. After a few texts back and forth there was radio silence. It drove me mad lol. Adrenaline and anxiety were at about 110. Another hour goes by and I receive the first pics and video of things as they were happening. It was, for lack of a better word, AMAZING! A couple hours of that and I got the phone call. She had an incredible time and was ready to come home. When I picked her up, I could see them kissing as she was about to walk out the door. She came and gave me a big hug, a kiss, and a thank you. On the way home she told me all about him and their night. We got home, had a hot reclaim session, then woke a few hours later for more… then again in the morning. It’s amazing what this lifestyle can do for a stable and loving couple!
We are both looking forward to the next time, when it’s the 3 of us.