We have 2 kids already all under 10 . I am now infertile for about 7 years.we both wanted another but not this way .

It's sitting hard on her mind and she has given me a lot of long winded talks about this .

My thing is not necessarily raising another dudes kid but I was there in everything with our 2 already and I don't want to be excluded if she gets pregnant again .

The kid would be mine she says and why would I exclude you now I didn't before.

Well I just don't want her guy to lay on her belly like I did or do all the stuff I did before . Sure it won't his biologically but mine as far as family is concerned.

She doesn't want him excluded either since it will be his but also said I'm not being excluded in any way .