Just need to get some local advice if possible my hotwife and I have talked about going to a swingers club multiple times and kind of feeling out the scene she has had a couple of bull hotel dates already so she isn’t afraid of having sex with other men and has said having sex with me at a swinger club or event would be fine. We are worried that if we go there will be people who try to push for us to full swing but I have no interest in that and my wife also wouldn’t want someone on me our thing is her playing with others….. first question has anyone gone to a swingers club/ event near Los Angeles? What was the scene like and any advice? Is there a a code or something that needs to be worn to show I’m a not available cc and not a swinger? And what are some good clubs/ events? For the hotwife lifestyle in the LA area?