Girl.. we’ve been doing this for a couple years now and tbh.. men just suck! Not all, but a ton on these dating sites do. I think they just like the chase or something because when it gets real and a meet is scheduled… 👻…. Happens more often than not. I look at it as, fucking thank you!!! Because you just saved me a bunch of time and energy and money. We used to schedule a meet somewhere in the middle ground but, not anymore. You want to play, you’re coming to my area because I’m not driving an hour to get ghosted. It’s not you honey, it’s these guys. I felt the same damn way and tbh, I know how it works and it’s still a blow to the ego at times. In think many are either in a relationship and get scared or they just talk a good game until it’s time to meet and they run away because their bedroom game actually sucks.

Has happened to me a handful of times, yep it hurts the ego a bit , but honestly I have learned that it's pretty common, I guess the new thrill is online talk, but once it becomes a reality to actually meet ,they run . Sad times we live in ,that wasting someone's time is now a turn on