So we have been doing this hotwife thing for a little over a year now and i have to say, I’m a bit disappointed with the quality of dates I have found. Having been out of the “Dating scene” for many many years now, things sure have changed when attention to find men. But, ok, we will roll with this new fad of “dating“. Apparently there are so many fake profiles out there that no one seems to know who is real and whom isn’t. Then, when you do find someone interested and willing to meet up, one of the first things I have been hearing is how it’s been so long since they’ve had sex.. ugh.. party killer.. 😞 when I hear this, I instantly think, well this isn’t going to end well… for me.. unfortunately, for me anyway, I get so many promises of getting my pussy wrecked and filled with cum and how they’ll tear my ass up one time after the next in one night.. only to be a bit disappointed with the reality of the real situation.. they cum in three minutes or less. And forget about round two.. most of these have been younger men, in their twenties, what’s going on these days? Surely I’m not alone here am I ladies? There have been a couple sweet and honest men who gave me fair warning prior to sex so I knew going in the first time might be a bit fast.. no problem, we can work with this.. but I have also had them never return a text or call after a cum and run night. So if there’s any good looking men in my area that can hold conversation, fuck for a long time and will show up for a second date, DMs are open! Who knows tho.. maybe I have magic pussy like the last couple dates said? 🤷♀️
The fake profiles and the bad sex is precisely why we only really pick people by three methods
1- Paid lifestyle sites that have review / cert features . If a guy doesn’t have at least 3-4 amazing reviews from couples / women they were with then we don’t even engage in the discussion
2- Reddit accounts that have a ton of karma, are verified and post content in lifestyle subs and tag others they’ve met . That proof of experience by tagging others is again , crucial. Reddit is easily the biggest site for fakes and time wasters so ignore the low effort profiles and focus on those that post their adventures as proof
3- content creators (OF and Fansly) that are in the lifestyle and say they’re open to meeting. It can sometimes be hard to discern who is just trying to get views / sales, who actually is in the lifestyle and who is just pretending their partner is another man / woman but by far the better experiences have been with these guys - they have experience, they have proof, they test often, they travel so distance isn’t an issue and most are fine not filming if that’s not your interest
There are too many amazing options out there to ever have to settle for conversations with blank or low effort profiles that make promises they won’t keep or risk bad sex . Focus your time on the three above and it’s like an entirely different wavelength of amazing sex
It’s more about making sure that they have those good reviews on the paid sites than just being on the paid sites .
I have zero issues traveling for good sex when their reviews have all but guaranteed it but yeah I won’t even consider meeting anyone if they don’t have them
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Swing lifestyle dot com . They’re called ‘certification’ rather than review but it’s the same thing