The wife and I have been in the lifestyle for about two years now. It’s been amazing. It’s a very stag/vixen dynamic, mfm, and sometimes I do sit back and watch the show. My best friend is very similar to me in ways. Been friends since we were 12. He’s in great shape and good looking. I know this. We honestly get mistaken for brothers a lot growing up.

I let him know that my wife and I have other men in the bedroom. He thought it was hot and said I’m lucky and he’d gladly volunteer to join. He’s even been in some threesomes himself so I know he’s experienced. I brought this up to my wife and she said she’d do it and I know she wouldn’t catch feelings. She does not find him attractive in that way but does agree she thinks he’s sexy and it could be fun.

I now know that if I ever wanted to I could have it where we all had fun. But I’m just unsure.

Who here actually has done this and has it made any impact on your relationship with your friend?