This morning my wife flew out of town for work to where her ex of ten years ago now lives. They have been sexting for the last few weeks and intend to meet tonight at her hotel. She has promised if anything happens she will send pictures. Both she and I are very excited and nervous at the same time.

We have been talking about this for a few years, dirty talk during sex or foreplay or dirty text messages sent to each other when one of us is away for work but never done anything about it beyond that. Then about two months ago her ex emailed her out of the blue just seeing how she was going and stuff and she replied and after a few emails she mentioned this work trip. She asked me beforehand if I would be ok with them catching up and I was cool with it, then a few weeks ago whilst we were having sex she asked how I would feel if anything happened and I said that it would be pretty hot if she fucked her ex.

So from then on we have talked about it a few times and she upped the flirtation in the communication. He was very keen once he realised she was interested and it seems like he was hoping for something like this from catching up. She has taken some sexy lingerie and even a couple of toys with her. I have been thinking a lot about her being shared the last couple of weeks and can’t stop thinking about another man fucking her today, I can hardly focus on anything else now she is on her way but I’m this mix of nervous for how it will actually feel and aroused and excited. Anyone got any advice on how to deal with the anticipation?