We all know a vanilla marriage , But I'm looking at the dynamics of a hotwife marriage.
Or anything similar to this .
How do you explain what the husband gets out of it , and not talking about watching live porn , but the inermost feelings where his wife is having sex with other men .
Do they still have sex themselves ? Do they still go on vacations together? What about kids , who's are they do they know age appropriately.? Does husband feel neglected and pushed aside when a 3rd comes over ? While out , is your husband feeling always second to a possible tryst ?
Is he always on his toes thinking your gonna flat up and leave him for a fuck . Is he able to feel safe and comphortable in his own home ?
I'm thinking it's like having sex making love to her and some guy pushes me off and starts fucking her and she allows it and tells me to just wait till he's finished then we can start back up again type of thing .I wouldn't mind it being she tells me hey I'm going out I'll be back later on, Or hey so n so is coming over to play you can stay and watch or join in or if you want to leave that's ok with me too But don't want it the other ways I described .
Marriage even as a hotwife has got to mean something still or am I wrong it's just paperwork ?
My husband is my priority and I am his . Our thirds are there for sex . We don’t hang out before or after playing . We don’t do drinks or dinner . We don’t chat between meets . It’s about sex . A physical experience . And we never play solo
Drew likes to watch me pleased . I like him watching . We learn new tips and tricks from every experience . He reclaims me after each time I’m with another person .
He’s no more jealous of seeing me fucked than he would be if I was enjoying the treadmill at the gym or a great meal at a restaurant . We find jealously and possessiveness to be incredibly toxic and something we outgrew when we started sharing toys and crayons in pre school . Sex is physical fun . It doesn’t make him less of a man, less of a sexual being less of anything . We choose partners together , we play together , we celebrate it together
We’ve been happily married 26 years and playing for 5. The only thing people on the outside see is wondering how we can be so ridiculously happy with each other after almost 3 decades together
He can and I love to watch him but we’re more Hotwife than swingers. His turn on is watching me
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