Hey all, long time lurker here and had a question for you guys. Wife isn’t wanting to play with a stranger which I get, and a while ago I brought up a fantasy of her and an ex. I know that most people advise against it, heavily.

That being said, I don’t have any concerns about her leaving me. She says I perform much better sexually than him. And overall she chose me in the end.

We have an established and trusting relationship, awesome sex life and we’re open to all kinds of things. Also, this ex was a bf for some time, then turned into a FWB, then nothing.

I’m feeling like this is a good route to take to experience in the lifestyle. Does anyone have advice I’m not thinking about at the moment? I just want to be prepared as I can going into this.

Thanks in advance!