My wife and I have been looking for that first time, both she and I have the intrigue but at the same time that nervousness, and I think the latter makes us stop when we are close to at least making that first approach.

Both she and I are very “demanding” so to speak and it is not that we are both or consider ourselves the most handsome, it is the fact that she is looking for a man who matches her tastes and I also want her to be with someone who is physically much better than me and also who is not an idiot with a good body, who is focused, committed, respectful and above all who seduces my woman beyond his body, and here comes the other, and it is that the fact that another man is able to seduce my wife with his lips and any other ability beyond the physical generates mental noise.

We have created profiles in many apps of the theme and we have had the odd conversation with people, but almost no one ever convinces us because of the aforementioned.

We have nasty talking, for our meetings she wears underwear related to the hotwifing theme, as well as tattoos and accessories, all this turns us on a lot, a lot! However, I think this is more intended for a fantasy than for something real, which the truth now does not worry me, since as an adult I can understand that there are things or desires that are better to stay in that, I also read out there in a post (I don’t remember the name of the girl) related to hotwifing where the girl mentions that if hotwifing is not for you, you can at least leave it as a fantasy and enjoy it with your partner, with which I very much agree.

Now, we do not refuse to let it happen, but it is true that sometimes I fantasize more than usual and I would love it to come true.

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I just wanted to express how difficult it has been to try that first time, but I would like to know if the same thing happened to any of you at the beginning and whether you have left it as a fantasy or you have carried it out and now you are part of the LS?