After the better part of a year after first telling my wife about my interest in the lifestyle, spending months roleplaying and researching together, she has finally agreed to "dip our toes in" so to speak, about a week ago... She is mostly interested in a "boyfriend" type relationship with one, maybe two other men instead of many... Where would it be best to find her a new partner for this? We just recently typed out an Adult Friend Finder profile together but just get no one serious, our inbox is full of dick pics which is a total turn off for her. She is getting irritated and I feel about ready to just end the search. Any advice here?