I make no asumptions just asking because I don't know and am wondering. In our case I discussed a Stag/Vixen arrangement when my wife leaned more towards swinging. It think it would be a good situation but as we are doing more looking in starting and where to go, I think swinging will be more challenging to arrange. I was just wondering if it's common for some couples to start with a mind towards swinging and then end up doing more Stag/Vixen/Hotwife perhaps because it's easier to arrange and still fulfils what the couple looks for. Or is it more common that Hotwife couples go into that LS because Hotwife LS is their desire, and they did not start swinging because swinging was not their desire?