I previously talked to my wife about the hotwife lifestyle, and her reaction was a bit sad and anxious. When I brought up the subject, she said that sharing her with another man would make her feel worthless. She was also worried about what would happen if I couldn’t control my emotions if she slept with someone else. Even though I tried to reassure her, the topic has been closed for about 3-4 months now due to these concerns. Occasionally, we role-play in bed, with me acting as her secret lover, which she really enjoys. Other times, she prefers romantic, slow, soft, and intimate sex with lots of cuddling and kissing, and we do it that way. I apologize for the long message, but my question is this: we haven’t talked about this topic for a while now. Do you think she wants to forget about it completely? If I bring it up again, how do you think I should approach it in a better way?