I guess another win?

I’ve written in the past, 26 years both of us, been together for 8 years married 1, I told the wife about my fantasy about a year ago now, and of course the initial was a “hell no, but we can play with the idea during sex” lately it’s been her bringing it up, today was very very hot. I started by eating her pussy making sure she’s wet and then fucking her missionary and cow girl, then had her sit on my face, and told her to grab us the dildo, now the dildo is 9” and has good girth, now she’s usually not a fan and never cares for it but today her pussy was so wet it was slipping right in, she looked me right in my eyes and asked me “Do you like watching my pussy getting stretched baby?” And I replied “Yes I love watching you getting stretched and get pleasured” and I continued to fuck her with it then getting close to cumming she looks at me again and says “Go deeper baby I want him to fuck my pussy I want every single inch” and she cummed all over the dildo then I slipped right in after that, and began to fuck her hard, and she pulls me in and whispers “How’s my loose pussy feel baby, is it used enough for you” I grabbed her neck and began to fuck her even harder and told her “no matter what this pussy belongs to me” and she moaned saying “It’ll always be yours baby” and we both cummed, and man if that’s what reclaiming your wife/gfs pussy feels like I’m on a high.

Now I don’t know if I should push more after this or let things simmer and go at it again, in the past when I’ve pushed for more of this roleplaying during sex I’ve gotten a hard “no” because that’s all I “want” and I learned from my mistake to not let me excitement take over.

What do you guys think? Do you think she’s doing it just for my pleasure or has it become both of our pleasure, and maybe I should progress it a little or let things ride the wave?