I guess maybe I am too Picky. I chat with some 3rds for a bit but if we don’t play relatively quickly I lose interest. And, there are so many fakes out there! I do have a “friend,” but even that doesn’t always pan out. I know the Mr would love it if I played more, so I am considering letting him choose my partners and set up dates. This has its own sexy quality to it, I will have to admit. However, I have a few reservations about this.

1) chemistry. If I chat with them, then I developed some chemistry or weed out the ones that just don’t do it for me. 2) see number 1.

However, like many on here, it is difficult finding a third that is real. I don’t feel like the Mr has the same standards that I do. For example: I prefer men over 30. He does not care what the age is, even turned on by the fact that I might be with some “young gun”.

Anyhow, navigating this hotwife lifestyle is a chore sometimes 😂. The women will feel me here. Some positive or negative feedback on this situation is appreciated. Thanks for coming to my Holly talk.