So my GF(51) of 11 years likes to play with others at times. It’s been a month or two since the last time. She usually travels with me when I go on business trips. But when she doesn’t, sometimes she will stay at another guy’s place for a night when I’m gone. She doesn’t like being home alone at night and she also hangs out at our local bar with her friends more when I’m gone and often gets a little wild after a few drinks. I leave in two days (gone for two nights). I really would like her to fuck someone while I am gone. So here is my question: Should I not say anything before I leave and let things play out or should I tell her she should start thinking about who she wants to sleep with while I’m gone? Also, should I sex starve her for a few days before I go or fuck her good tonight and get her in the mood for someone else in two days? We are always honest with each other so she knows I am good with it but I don’t want her to feel pressure. I like it when it just happens.