For me it was two things…

1. CONFIDENCE!

I love my husband but he can come across as quite intimidating (6’5 bodybuilder) 😂. As a result of this, I haven’t had a single guy dare to compliment me or even look in my general direction since we’ve been together. I don’t think I realised what this did to my confidence until we began hotwifing. Having so many guys paying attention to me, complimenting me, wanting me… has given me a new found confidence that I love and my husband finds incredibly sexy

1. My obsession with cum 🙈 I had no clue how much another guy cumming inside of me would turn me on. It has gotten to the stage that just knowing a guy is about to cum almost makes me finish again 😂 and don’t even get me started on the idea of my husband ‘reclaiming’ me 🥵

Would love to hear what other unexpected benefits people have discovered…