Many years ago, before we got married, my wife and I went to stay with a friend of mine who lives in a different country. This is way back in ‘99.

My friend had a 1 bed and graciously put us up on a futon in his living room.

My wife and friend had met a couple of times before when he had come home to visit, they hit it off and liked each other. He had a. Wry hot girlfriend at the time but they didn’t live together.

We went out one night drinking, my friend only had a couple of beers as he was driving while we had more because we were on our vacation with no obligations other than to have a good night.

We got back to his place in the early hours and opened another couple of beers while we chatted. At some point I fell asleep (under the influence), but was conscious of conversation going on between them. Then I fell into a deeper sleep.

I don’t recall her coming to bed, but we woke up the following morning, she (or they) had undressed me down to my boxers and she was on a long T-shirt. He was gone to work.

We enjoyed the rest of the trip but in my head there was “something”, he became a little moody, they had a small exchange of words (she asked him did he want us to find a hotel instead, he said no and it blew over), but I didn’t think anything of it at the time.

Over the years I had a niggling feeling they something might have happened between them. My wife is excellent at keeping secrets. You’d never know. I only discovered this because one of our friends told me about something that happened her and I told the friend I didn’t feel comfortable knowing it on my own so would she tell my wife too and she said she already knew and had for a couple of months.

Over the years I thought they might have kissed or fooled around, but I’m not sure. We were together four years at that point.

I’m not going to bring it up with either of them as it’s so long ago. It’s incredibly arousing thinking of it though. I’ve even woken up with a hard on after having a dream about that night where I witnessed it. I’ve had this dream and others where they hooked up with me there in his hot tub (with his now wife there too).

The reason it’s back in my mind is that she told me the other night that her boss came onto her about six years ago but she turned him down. It was on a work night out and everyone was drunk. He’s done this successfully with several female employees over the years, even confided in her that he regularly goes for “massages”.

I also find this incredibly arousing. The thought of her kissing him and maybe fooling around is such a turn on. I don’t think she’d sleep with home but up to that possibly? Maybe?

Anyway, What do you think? Is there a possibility something happened all that time ago? Before we were married?