I’m a wannabe husband who stumbled in this kink four years ago and shared it with my wife who has been open to fantasize but emphasized it will never happen irl.

I feel like recently that has changed and I want to get the input from other hotwives who were initially reluctant and later embraced it.

Here are some changes noticing last few months.

1. Just about every time we make love she wants to roleplay. Whereas I used to be the one opening up the subject she now beats me to it every time.

2. In the past she used to always emphasize that “you know this is just a fantasy right?…. I’m never actually going to do that.” - she hasn’t said this in about 4 months. She seems to be really enjoying it without having to add that bit in every time. Am I reading too much into this? Or does this mean she doesn’t have post-nut clarity.remorse anymore?

3. She shares with me more about who she finds attractive and who flirted with her while out and about. She used to never do that.

4. Finally yesterday while on a run she sent me a picture of a really fit guy who had just ran past her. She captioned it with “should I race him?” 😜

Me: “you should. he looks like he wants you to catch up to him…”

A few minutes later she sent me a shot of her Apple Watch showing her five mile run time and calories burned.

Me: “is that from the run or from him working you out”

Her: Both, but you’re the one who really keeps my heart pounding! 😘

She told me when she got home that as he ran past her the first thing in her mind was “he could be a great candidate…” ————-

Considering this progression. Would it make sense to assume that she is really considering? I’m asking because I want to know if I should proceed to initiate something and introduce her to potential thirds.

Would appreciate hotwives perspectives especially.