Hey everyone, I’m M (19) with F(19). We have been together for coming up on 7 years and I have a major hot wife kink.

My girlfriend is the love of my life and I’m the love of hers, and she is loyal as hell. I really want to share my kink with her and ideally be able to experiment with her but I struggle with finding a good way to communicate that with her.

We have had a MFF threesome once, but that was a couple of years ago. We were in a poly relationship which didn’t work out but we both decided that the sex was fun but depending on a 3rd person in an already long running relationship was a terrible idea.

I want to introduce the idea of hotwifing to her and maybe get her to the point of simply messaging other guys, but it’s important I emphasize the fact that I will not love her any less for it, and it’s my fantasy and if she’s not comfortable that’s okay.

With that being said, I still think it’s important for me as an individual to share my likes and dislikes with her. I’ve mentioned the topic once or twice and she was open to sharing with one of my friends but (unfortunately) he has a girlfriend and was unable to do such an act. But ever since it’s been pretty cold turkey.

W/o dragging this on any longer, I’m just interested in hearing how you all got into hotwifing and what advice you’d have for someone attempting to introduce it into the bedroom.