So to start off we just had our third encounter Our first 2 was with the same guy and it was amazing This last time was with a dominant couple and was out of this world. We were both tied down to separate beds and it was amazing. I like to watch sometimes but I always join

Any way after the first two times I was uneasy about things and brought up the fact that in order for me to share her, the week leading up to the date we need to be intimate, not necessarily sex but just intimate with each other. And after for the next day or so I would like her to be intimate with me and initiate things just to reaffirm me that we’re all good. I’ve explained how the reclaiming thing works and why it’s so important to me. She has agreed and understands

Fast forward to the next day after our last encounter No touching, no intimacy, nothing until later that night where I almost felt guilty asking for sex just because I felt like I needed a release otherwise my emotions were running all over the place. Go forward another day and same thing the next day and finally she says just because you saw him fuck me like that doesn’t mean you have to

I know this post is kind of all over the place but a few questions

Are there any couples that after an encounter nothing happens? Everything I’ve read is that that’s what boosts everything and to be honest is a big reason I want to be apart of this

Am I Bering to needy I guess for what I want out of this We are very open and commutative well but I feel like she’s ignoring what I need

Are there couples that have encounters that almost don’t go into an encounter as a couple but more of just sex with other people ? Which is fine and honestly I think if we are to continue would have to be some form of this