We have played with 4 guys over the past years, but only gone bare with one. That one however, seems to have way more connection with my wife than the others, both mentally, emotionally and sexually.

In fact, we never used condoms with him, it was prepared so, but when we finally were at the airBnB appartement, and my wife and him went to the bedroom, she wanted to feel him bare, and he left the condoms at the bedtable...and never used them since, it just didn't feel natural with him.

It may be a chicken & egg question, but does bare sex with a man make a woman more connected to him? Or do women only allow men they feel attracted to do take them bare?