My partner has a lot of sexual repression and is extremely loyal. I feel like she'd thrive in this lifestyle but she is afraid of getting lost in the sauce. She is way more extraverted than myself. She's had many partners after rebelling from her religious upbringing, saying she was only looking for her soulmate but speedrunning the process. She's always horny. Loves attention, which I cant always provide because im the bread winner. Because Im the breadwinner, she doesnt want to risk. She was excited at first thought but shuts diwn any idea now saying "maybe way later when we are solid we can try things, like 20 years" She's only orgasmed 2x from sex, once on substances, the othee in an angry volatile relatiobshio. I dont last as much as a used to which makes me feel bad so I offer the opportunity. She has high anxiety, i think, from lack of Os. Any adcice?