Wife and I have had a few limited conversations about her playing with another guy recently. We had a previous experience with a friend and was recipricated oral only. Fast forward 20 years and kids later and here we are. The urge for this to happen is very real for me and it no longer subsides after sex. My wife enjoys the attention but can't get past the feeling that there is no way it could end positively. I've read many articles, posts, etc and feel that we are stable enough to give it a try and that it's for her satisfaction and the want to see her pleasured. We use larger toys and she completely lets go and soaks our bed almost everytime. But .... she has been a hard no only want you! So Saturday we are messin around and I bring up how awesome it is to get likes and comments about her on Reddit. She stops and says her biggest concern is that if it was to happen and she wanted to stop that we wouldn't stop. She said that she was thinking about it the other day and that was an issue to her. Now look before you comment and beat me up about this I feel its progress. She at least is thinking about it and what her hold ups are. Clearly communication needs to improve and we need to set out guidelines and make sure we are in it together. It's baby steps but I feel its positive progress. Thoughts?