Hi! This is my first time posting here, so please bear with me.😅 My hubby (29) introduced me to the lifestyle and we've been talking about doing it for 3 years now. I (F30) strongly believe in a monogamous relationship but slowly warming up to the idea of us doing it with someone else. I had few encounters just a few months ago but did not go all the way. One guy flaked on us and the other one literally sucked my tits but only want solo. So nevermind! My hubby keeps on talking about doing it with a couple who's in the LS as well but I don't like the feeling of my hubby doing it to another woman. I told him about my concern and he said he's okay if we just do it with the bull. Am I selfish in a sense that I can play with other person while he can't?