Some quick background. 16 years ago when we started dating I’ve had this fantasy. While dating we used to play a game where we would go to a club and I’d “pretend” to be her friend or brother and watch her get hit on by other guys. Years through our marriage I always reminded her I had a desire to share her and to watch. She always said she could never do it. This let to role play in the bedroom, asking her to point out who she would or wouldn’t have while we were out… all the soft steps. A few months ago I sent her into the city for a “mom getaway”. A weekend in a hotel downtown with spa, dinners, and included a blind date with a gentleman I found on Reddit. The blind date went well and although she was anxious and afraid and uncertain, she enjoyed his company so much that she finally invited him to her room and broke thru the barrier. After she told me she always liked the idea but couldn’t get over the thought that she was “cheating”. She has seen him many times since.

What makes tonight different is we surprised her in our town. I took her out to dinner and he suddenly showed up. After dinner I excused myself, took our kids to a movie, and right now they are together in our martial bed doing nasty things a married woman shouldn’t want to do. We decided early on that our bed was a special place just for us and now with my approval she is breaking thru that barrier too.

I want to enjoy the movie, but I really can’t wait to put these kids to bed and reclaim her in the same spot she was taken from me.