We're newbies, only rollplaying now. This has been a fantasy of my wife for years, and I'm getting into it im the last few months. I rollplayed for ger excitement,not realizing how much the simulated play would turn me on. IF anything happened, it would ve MFM. The idea of solo absolutely isn't something I'd be interested in, and she hasn't ever hinted that it would be an idea.

For a long time she's only considered this a fantasy, and never figured it was a real option. But... I think I'm willing and she's the hesitant one now. I'm certainly not pushing, leaving this up to her.

To me, a big part of this is giving her more attention than obe man is able.

One idea I've had is easing her in with an oral on her only event. Has anyone done this? The idea cane from the reddit in the topic. There are dudes who claim to be OK with no reciprocation. I think the idea would be hot.