Hi all! My absolute dream wife and I have been together for over 7 years, have wonderful kids and are basically your regular neighbors. We’ve visited a couples club in our first year where we did nothing with others, but we did have sex while all of them watched. Also, we’ve been in the lifestyle since about 3 months in which I’m locked 24/7 (allowed out for showers) and she holds the key 😊

So far for the background story; we’ve got some kinks. My wife is open minded, but not when it comes to cheating. That’s simply a hard no. I often told her the thought of her with another man/woman makes me incredibly hard. She always laughed it off and said that scenario will never happen.

Saturday night she had a bachelorette party and got really drunk. She loves to dance and texted me she got quite some attention in the club, which I know boosts her self esteem since she gained some weight after two pregnancies. She just can’t believe anyone else besides me would find her attractive, but in that club they were all over her. She texted me that after some dancing a guy gave her a brief kiss on the lips and she asked me if I minded. Said I didn’t mind at all and I wouldn’t even be mad if it was a tongue kiss. 10 minutes later I got a text saying “that’s what it just became, but you’re the one I love! I’m sorry for this honey!”. I just thought it was hot. We texted a little and I said I even wouldn’t be mad if she had sex with him, but it would have to be safe and she needs to tell me what happened.

The day after we had the talk in real life and I asked her what happened. Apart from the story being exactly like in the texts (I had zero doubt about that, just to be clear) she mentioned that after my approval and her text she went on tongue kissing him for about an hour, off and on. She said this was a one time thing only and it was the alcohol throwing all boundaries overboard. I explicitly told her it’s totally fine, I feel happy that her self esteem got a boost and she’s more than welcome to do it again. She wasn’t feeling the idea.

Now, I’ve got some questions. What are the chances of this becoming a hotwife or theesome scenario? The desire is obviously there, be it hidden and only to be revealed after alcohol. Also, how do I approach this matter without blowing the whole thing up with zero chance of it ever happening again? Thanks for your input!