I’ve talked to a few guys on here and I’ve noticed a pattern that a decent amount of us are into this because of some sort of cheating that has happened in the past or something similar in past relationships, some sort of trauma of sorts.

That’s what kickstarted it for me. There were some small things here and there back in high school that I kinda think contributed to the reason I’m into this, but also I was cheated on in college and it was a pretty rough time.

For some reason after that I couldn’t stop thinking about hot girls fucking other guys. I don’t know if it’s my mind subconsciously trying to get over the emotional damage or that’s just what happens sometimes psychologically when trauma happens.

Anyone else have a similar experience? My fiancée is aware of this and we get into pretty deep conversations about it. Wanted to get this sub’s opinion on it and happy to talk about it