I’ve been a hotwife for a bit over a year now and am just curious about your thoughts on pre planned or spontaneous dates. Usually I go for spontaneous since I love meeting guys organically but last night (and waking up now) had a great time with a third I have played with previously.

He was in town and texted me, got us a hotel room and I spent the night and am waiting for him to wake up now lol. I had a lot of fun and really enjoyed it.

I am just curious if planning your dates in advance is common for most couples and if we are the odd ones out. Obviously there is no right or wrong answer and each couple does what works best for them.